Comments on: eHarmony Review by Liora http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/ Web reviews and how to's for site owners, bloggers and social media users Mon, 06 Feb 2012 21:42:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jody http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-12497 Jody Mon, 03 Jan 2011 04:52:11 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-12497 Eharmony stinks! Firstly it will allow you to spend an hour filling in questionnaires before rejecting you for being separated and not divorced. Lots of us are in that position and we are not all monsters. some if us even stay married because of our faith! This weekend the site promises free communication and has had a TV advertising campaign too. Can you communicate for free? NO. Every time you try to post , the subscription page comes up. For a Christian site this is either deliberately dishonest or just plain incompetence. I am going to disappear like Cinderella at midnight tonight from my useless free trial. Don't touch it with a bargepole! Eharmony stinks! Firstly it will allow you to spend an hour filling in questionnaires before rejecting you for being separated and not divorced. Lots of us are in that position and we are not all monsters. some if us even stay married because of our faith!
This weekend the site promises free communication and has had a TV advertising campaign too. Can you communicate for free? NO. Every time you try to post , the subscription page comes up. For a Christian site this is either deliberately dishonest or just plain incompetence.
I am going to disappear like Cinderella at midnight tonight from my useless free trial. Don’t touch it with a bargepole!

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-4295 Jennifer Sun, 03 Jan 2010 15:59:44 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-4295 I love this review! I have been telling my friends this exact concept is that these are the same guys we work with, in the bar or at church. But the difference is they are putting in a little effort into dating. I first joined and was mis-led by eharmony that these guys are more serious about dating then the rest of the guys dating. I would meet eharmony dates and if the date did not work out it must be eharmony or myself's fault. But reality is they are the winners or loosers we date all the time. I met a guy I thought would be perfect for me on Eharmony, then he proceeded to get stinking drunk and tried to go home with me. And that is when I knew I could of met this guy at a bar and the same result what have happend. We never talked afterwards. The whole process has opened my eyes of the traits I need in a relationship and that if I am not interested I am not going to waste my time in dating someone which can not fulfil my needs of wanting a marriage. I love this review! I have been telling my friends this exact concept is that these are the same guys we work with, in the bar or at church. But the difference is they are putting in a little effort into dating. I first joined and was mis-led by eharmony that these guys are more serious about dating then the rest of the guys dating. I would meet eharmony dates and if the date did not work out it must be eharmony or myself’s fault. But reality is they are the winners or loosers we date all the time. I met a guy I thought would be perfect for me on Eharmony, then he proceeded to get stinking drunk and tried to go home with me. And that is when I knew I could of met this guy at a bar and the same result what have happend. We never talked afterwards. The whole process has opened my eyes of the traits I need in a relationship and that if I am not interested I am not going to waste my time in dating someone which can not fulfil my needs of wanting a marriage.

]]> By: Emory Rowland http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-4291 Emory Rowland Sat, 02 Jan 2010 17:47:26 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-4291 Appreciate the comments sandra. Correction has been made. Happy New Year to you! Appreciate the comments sandra. Correction has been made. Happy New Year to you!

]]> By: sandra http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-4290 sandra Sat, 02 Jan 2010 15:22:25 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-4290 I just read back over my comments above and realize a typo--at the end--I wrote "Loving yourself well enough to not let your head (and maybe your loneliness) completely override your intuition is paramount." I meant the word "heart" where I wrote "head"...just in case anybody out there was reading and noticing! Have a happy 2010 out there everybody-- I just read back over my comments above and realize a typo–at the end–I wrote “Loving yourself well enough to not let your head (and maybe your loneliness) completely override your intuition is paramount.” I meant the word “heart” where I wrote “head”…just in case anybody out there was reading and noticing! Have a happy 2010 out there everybody–

]]> By: sandra http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-4289 sandra Sat, 02 Jan 2010 15:18:31 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-4289 You know--I think this is one of the best reviews of dating services I've come across. You are dead on when you say that the most important thing these sites may end up doing for us is to force us into looking (and looking more honestly) at ourselves. As for my personal experience with these websites--I've only done eHarmony so can't compare. I have not found love there (and in fact had a rather startling and heart-breaking experience with a man I met there) but that's not the website's fault. As the author says here--people are people, on-line, in church or at the park. Loving yourself well enough to not let your heart (and maybe your loneliness) completely override your intuition is paramount. Thanks for an excellent review. You know–I think this is one of the best reviews of dating services I’ve come across. You are dead on when you say that the most important thing these sites may end up doing for us is to force us into looking (and looking more honestly) at ourselves. As for my personal experience with these websites–I’ve only done eHarmony so can’t compare. I have not found love there (and in fact had a rather startling and heart-breaking experience with a man I met there) but that’s not the website’s fault. As the author says here–people are people, on-line, in church or at the park. Loving yourself well enough to not let your heart (and maybe your loneliness) completely override your intuition is paramount. Thanks for an excellent review.

]]> By: Susan http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-4172 Susan Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:51:44 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-4172 Awaiting moderation? Just as I suspected. What I would term as a "wolf in sheeps clothing". Awaiting moderation? Just as I suspected. What I would term as a “wolf in sheeps clothing”.

]]> By: Susan http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-4171 Susan Mon, 02 Nov 2009 19:50:10 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-4171 I consider money wasted if you decide to use EH. There are numerous other sites and options available. Too many reviews that appear to be written by EH or there operatives.Common sense dictates when there happens to be a link right under the review. No doubt this will be deleted quickly. But after all "Clickfire" is below "Go-daddy". For 4.95 a month anyone can have a website. I consider money wasted if you decide to use EH. There are numerous other sites and options available. Too many reviews that appear to be written by EH or there operatives.Common sense dictates when there happens to be a link right under the review.
No doubt this will be deleted quickly. But after all “Clickfire” is below “Go-daddy”. For 4.95 a month anyone can have a website.

]]> By: Jo-Anne http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-4143 Jo-Anne Fri, 23 Oct 2009 13:07:26 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-4143 I tried eharmony, and it did not work for me at all. Neither has any other dating company and this is because I got sick of men lying about their age, appearance and job. Be HONEST!!! As for the chap above who thinks that women are too independant - grow up! Women ARE looking for love but we don't base our need for love on sex. Why should women not be picky? Men are! Why should I have to settle for a fat balding guy instead of enjoying the company of a lovely decent man who has taken care of himself properly? One man I was foolish enough to arrange a date with had sent me photos that were over 15 years old, whoops...he lied about his age, he dressed like a slob and got incredibly drunk - at which point I got a taxi home. I could not tell all of this from his phone calls, letters etc. It also did not matter to me that he was quite wealthy, was a top engineer and this and that - he was a complete and utter waste of time. Please God, send decent men into the world, instead of just giving them a twelve pack of bud and JD as a best pal! I tried eharmony, and it did not work for me at all. Neither has any other dating company and this is because I got sick of men lying about their age, appearance and job. Be HONEST!!! As for the chap above who thinks that women are too independant – grow up! Women ARE looking for love but we don’t base our need for love on sex. Why should women not be picky? Men are! Why should I have to settle for a fat balding guy instead of enjoying the company of a lovely decent man who has taken care of himself properly? One man I was foolish enough to arrange a date with had sent me photos that were over 15 years old, whoops…he lied about his age, he dressed like a slob and got incredibly drunk – at which point I got a taxi home. I could not tell all of this from his phone calls, letters etc. It also did not matter to me that he was quite wealthy, was a top engineer and this and that – he was a complete and utter waste of time. Please God, send decent men into the world, instead of just giving them a twelve pack of bud and JD as a best pal!

]]> By: Alan http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-3940 Alan Sun, 16 Aug 2009 15:31:59 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-3940 I just tried eHarmony & they said I was agreeable but that they could not possibly find a match for me this actually happens to 1 in 5 people which I find quite a high number of people the can't match it seems to me if your a middle of the road kinda person then eharmony is not for you, you must have strong view for it to be able to match you. I just tried eHarmony & they said I was agreeable but that they could not possibly find a match for me this actually happens to 1 in 5 people which I find quite a high number of people the can’t match it seems to me if your a middle of the road kinda person then eharmony is not for you, you must have strong view for it to be able to match you.

]]> By: Doug http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/comment-page-1/#comment-3468 Doug Mon, 02 Mar 2009 19:36:54 +0000 http://www.clickfire.com/eharmony-review/#comment-3468 Very good review. Indeed, many women my age - 40s - and perhaps myself without knowing) have put roadblocks up which impede success with the opposite sex. Many women, despite being in teir 40s have never married, are very tough minded, overly career-driven, have kids, are extremely close to family, have almost given up on men, etc... Their cadre of women friends probably discourages success in the dating process, too. I'm on as I divorced. I've found most of the women (thankfully not all) very picky and less interested in men than they were when they were younger. Actually, if not for their longing for sex, I think many would quit. They are no longer looking for love. And too independent. Very good review. Indeed, many women my age – 40s – and perhaps myself without knowing) have put roadblocks up which impede success with the opposite sex. Many women, despite being in teir 40s have never married, are very tough minded, overly career-driven, have kids, are extremely close to family, have almost given up on men, etc… Their cadre of women friends probably discourages success in the dating process, too.

I’m on as I divorced. I’ve found most of the women (thankfully not all) very picky and less interested in men than they were when they were younger. Actually, if not for their longing for sex, I think many would quit.

They are no longer looking for love. And too independent.

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