eHarmony Review by Kristin
Here’s my review of one dating site that is very different from the rest. eHarmony (www.eharmony.com) is unlike other online dating, matching, relationship or social networking site. In comparison, many others are not actually match-making but give you a cafeteria style way of choosing your mate online. Founded by relationship expert Dr. Neil Clark Warren who you have likely heard pitch the service on radio and television commercials, eHarmony’s “Everlasting Love” campaign is a true testimony to what the site is trying to achieve. eHarmony is the first and only site that helps users build serious relationships for life-long love and happiness. It gives the opportunity for people, who would not normally meet, a way to find each other.
Individuals are carefully matched using eHarmony’s patented Compatibility Matching System. You are matched by 436 questions designed to select individuals who share a deep level of compatibility to you which gives a visual of how many you have answered and how far you still must go to finish. You find out a lot about yourself before you even pay one dollar for the service. The questions are in various categories, from values, character, and intellect to sense of humor passion and goals. By answering these questions to get your matches, you know that eHarmony has a deep commitment to having you succeed in finding the love of your life.
Members cannot browse for matches like many of the other dating websites. You will not be able to see someone’s profile unless you are matched by the compatibility model. The model matches members based on if their profiles are similar to those of married couples who are very satisfied and report being married to the love of their life. They offer “guided” communication, helping you to break the ice and learn basic things about the other person. eHarmony’s unique process of getting acquainted begins with a series of questions sent via email. It is structured so that members get to know each other slowly and progressively. If your member match does not answer the questions, you will not be able to continue the communications.
eHarmony service costs more than other dating sites because its users want more than just a date. eHarmony members are very serious about meeting someone special. They pay:
- $49.95 for a one-month subscription
- $99.95 for a three-month subscription
- $149.95 for a six-month subscription
- $249.95 for an entire year of membership
The price is not for the faint at heart. eHarmony members make a true commitment to finding their perfect match. The cost may appear high on the surface, however you have to compare track records. eHarmony has the highest rate of matching now married couples who used a website to find each other. If you are truly looking for the Mr. or Ms. Right, this is the right place for you.
The integrity of eHarmony shows in its commitment to its members. During ad campaigns, the couples are true eHarmony members who met and married. eHarmony has even partnered with Tiffany & Co. Each eHarmony couple that notifies the company of their marriage will receive a Tiffany bowl as a wedding gift. They have found a formula match people well because they know what makes a good relationship work.
eHarmony – Free Personality Profile
January 14th, 2008
I think eHarmony is a great place for singles to find the love of their life. You need to be careful when you are a first time user of an online dating service. Some of the other online dating sites don’t screen their applicants as thoroughly as eHarmony does, and as such chances are you might not be as successful. eHarmony also puts out promotional codes that can save you hundreds of dollars every month.
November 20th, 2008
I cant say that my experience with eharmony has been anything other than dissappointing.Out of 500 matches I only made it to the open communication with 3 people .2 lost interest and one stood me up 2 times.Although I closed down quite a few matches,i really cant say that anyone I was matched with appealled to me,nor I to them and I filled out my questionarrie as accurate as possible twice.I am an attractive 42 year old single man,make an excellent income and am told by my friends wives that they are shocked that this is the result.I wont return and wouldn’t recommend this service to anyone.
May 25th, 2009
Without Kristin’s detail of her personal experience on eHarmony, this “review” is nothing more than a PR exercise, and is of no use to those who want true feedback. Do you work for eHarmony Kristin?
September 4th, 2009
I am baffled by my inability to log on to my page on eharmony. I spent a few weeks in the US on vacation; while there I joined eharmony and indicated that I work abroad and will return to the US next summer August 2010, one of my question related to long-distance relationships. Since my return here, I have been unable to access my account. Two email messages were returned, I receive error messages whenever I try to open the eharmony page. Any suggestions?
October 5th, 2009
I too find that internet dating websites don’t really work.
Caution is usually perceive as playing game and not honest.
And first impression from photo take too much emphasis on getting the right match to be interested in you.
But in reality, i believe people are usually atttractive because of their personality rather than a few photo impressions. Nope, dating online websites just don’t work for me.
November 14th, 2009
E-Harmony – what a disappointment! 9 months of using the site and of the nearly 342 matches, only 4 were within a 70 mile radius. It appears that if you are in a place like central MN, take a pass. If you are in a major population center, give it a try.
January 30th, 2010
i Agree with Ed,this sounds like a pr ad,not a testimonial.
after wasting both my time and money on eharmony,all i can say is Dont Waste Your Time!
go somewheres else!
August 25th, 2011
I tried eharmony and I think that Kristin lady DOES work for them. That site is a joke. You can’t communicate with anyone, even matches, unless you fork out tons of money. Don’t waste your time. They obviously don’t care about helping you find ” the one” or they would let you talk without paying. It’s just a scam, don’t fall for it like I did.
August 28th, 2011
I tried eharmony, posted a profile and pictures, but I’m not going to pay 59.00 for a one-month membership just to be able to look at pictures from my matches. It’s very disappointing that eharmony doesn’t give you the option of looking at pictures of potential matches, and then let you decide if you want to pay the membership fees. I agree with Zak, it’s just a scam; I’m glad I didn’t subscribe.
September 5th, 2011
I mean it, this dating site thing feels like that expensive shirt you get at the store you don’t wear after the summer. Aside from not going out I didn’t even get a single communication. It seems like the natural process of the bar does a better job and it has not been my friend. Checking to see if it was maybe worth a try back to the girls that I am not seeking for a long term relationship, that have spontaneous lower self esteems, commitment problems, not healthy partners and else…I guess. As if my computer could be more usefull then in college
November 15th, 2011
I met my husband on eharmony after dating online on other sites for years yes YEARS, I would never have chosen him on my own I would have overlooked him. I would have gone for the super uber extroverted guy who was fun for 6 months but not for life! If you’re in your 30′s or 40′s and you still aren’t attached go on this website give the guy/gal you get to a date with a chance and go out a few times. If you get to only a few dates then good riddence you spend a lot less money and time on someone you aren’t compatible with one more heartbreak missed. Good luck with your search.
January 4th, 2012
For the sake of argument, let’s allow that people know themselves well enough, and are honest enough, to complete an ‘accurate’ profile…
Problem is, the assumption that my perfect partner is someone just like me is fundamentally flawed. Relationships are not that simple. This is pseudo-science.
January 14th, 2012
May be good for younger people but not for seniors.