Comments on: eHarmony Dating

By: Emory Rowland

Emory Rowland — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 16:26:06 +0000

andrea, i would be inclined to not give out my personal info unless I absolutely trusted the source. I wouldn’t think that giving info like that to eHarmony for billing or whatever would be made available to users. But, always verify. My .02 worth.

By: andrea

andrea — Wed, 10 Mar 2010 13:31:42 +0000

I also do not have low self esteem! Im divorced after 22 years and i think im ready to begin dating. i cant see myself in a club either, but before i try the online dating site eharmony i have a question whether its appropriate to publish your real name and address? im a bit worried about security, i have been married for a very long time and am not “seasoned” as the next person might be.

By: Kat W.

Kat W. — Tue, 19 May 2009 23:23:40 +0000

I’ve been thinking about trying a dating website and have been shopping around to find where to best put my money. I appreciate the comments as well as the posted reviews online. It helps me out a bunch so I’m not just wasting my time.

And FYI, Tod M, not all people who sign up for dating websites have low self-esteem. I happen to not have time to go out all over creation and “meet” people. My day is consumed with minutely boring chores of cleaning house and going grocery shopping. I also work hours that are inconvenient for going out until around 1AM in the morning. Plus, I don’t enjoy large crowds of creepy males rubbing up against me at any point in the evening, so I guess that rules out bars and clubs. I like intimacy and I especially like a home cooked meal with a movie in the privacy of my home.

So, I really think it has to deal with more people like myself who are just looking to see what’s out there and are completely clueless as to where to meet others of the opposite sex after college.

By: Tod M

Tod M — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 00:28:11 +0000

Lmao at anyone that is so low in self esteem or otherwise deficient of looks,body,etc that they have to utilize some lame web site to find “love”…. Look people do not be so lame…. Go out and socialize like the rest of the people in world! Lol have you ever thought that only reason these women and men are even on some lame web service like E Harmony is because they are wholly failing to find someone in real time and that reason is…..????? Do you really want everyone elses rejects?

By: Heather

Heather — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 19:48:55 +0000

I had great success with e-harmony. My first match request for communication turned out to be my last. We had our first date a few days after being matched and got married 11 months later. He had been on it for a while and had a few unsuccesful dates, but all of them turned out to be friends in the end. I recommend it to friends all the time…

By: englishkid

englishkid — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 14:31:21 +0000

E-Harmony is a complete waste of time and money. I found people on there are flakey, shallow, and most of the profiles I was matched with weren’t even paying customers (so they didn’t respond). They just couldn’t match me with anyone I was remotely interested in.

I’d recommend anyone to think twice, and to try all the other sites first before throwing a lot of money at E-Harmony.

Watch for the automatic renewal. They’ll bill you for the next month without asking you, then tell you afterwards.

Very sketchy.

By: babygirl

babygirl — Sat, 25 Oct 2008 03:07:50 +0000

e-harmony is super slow, matches with no pictures, they don’t even give your money back.
You call to customer service and the voice mail is full… all is BS…!!! try every other dating online but please do not waste your money on E-HARMONY…!!!

By: julie

julie — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 17:54:28 +0000

I was an eharmony member for a couple of years. I didn’t have luck with it. One thing that I think they should fix is the way they handle closed matches. They seem to still match active members with closed matches, but they can’t communicate with you and you keep wondering why you don’t get a response. I know this because I closed my membership and I asked them if I could take my profile off of their website. They won’t allow you to do that, stating the reason that it’s less work for you if you want to rejoin. I then asked if they match people with those matches that have closed membership. The girl said “not necessarily.” She wouldn’t give me a straight answer, then it all made sense to me, the reasons you seemed to have matches that either would never respond or would sit in your box forever, maybe they’re closed matches, or ofcourse there is the possibillity that most men are not attracted to me. I guess that could be. Anyway, this website made me feel bad. It was bad for my self esteem. Men seemed flakey and disinterested. Whether or not it was me, I still think p eople should have the option of completely removing their profiles after they’ve closed, and I also think that it’s unfair to still match people with closed members. That’s my experience.